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Ginger Lube

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i can’t remember where Maximus came across it years ago, but He forwarded me an article about figging, using fresh ginger in your sex play. You take a finger of ginger, peel off the outer skin, shape it into a dildo or butt plug shape, dip it into cold water and insert it into the orifice of choice (making sure it is sturdy as not to break off and with a wide enough base as not to slip inside and disappear!).

We lived separately at the time, 180 miles apart, so Maximus instructed me to follow the directions and fig myself. So i did. And i LOVED it! Ginger on my clit, pussy, and ass gives a warm-to-hot sensation much like the warm-to-hot feeling i get when those areas have been directly spanked or flogged. It’s like the rush of blood and tingling after-effect of being spanked and it stays for quite awhile, as it does after the spankings end. And as i love that sensation of having my clit, pussy, and ass spanked, i love the sensation ginger gives me.

i’d not given figging much thought for a while until we were at the Desire trip with Life on the Swingset last year. There was a lot of giggling, squealing, and teasing about figging that came up during a conversation with a couple who was interested in BDSM. i remember responding, “Oooooh, i LOVE figging!” and seeing shocked looks and discussions that it was so painful. It’s not painful for me, its wonderful.

So i decided to do some more research and experimenting when we got home. i have not been able to find the article Maximus sent me, but i did find other articles about it, which i’ll include at the end. i considered that maybe the ginger i’d used in the past was old and not as potent. i tried fresh ginger from the market and it had the same warming effect. i did some more research to see if there was something missing, and no, seems we were preparing it right.

In my research, i found someone, elims at Kink Lab, who was experimenting with making their own ginger lube. They are waaaayyy more science-y than i am and are making their lube from scratch and including ginger juice. i thought, “i have a juicer…i have lube…hmmmm…”

And today i experimented in making my own ginger lube.

And it was awesome!

i bought new ginger at the store, washed it, left the peel on and ran it through my juicer.

A 3-inch chunk yielded about 1/8 cup of juice, which was more than i expected! If you don’t have a juicer,img_1912i think you could finely grate the ginger and squeeze the pulp in a fine mesh bag, like they use for making nut-based vegetarian milks, or cheese cloth, and collect the juice from it.

Then i combined 1 Tablespoon water-based lube with 1 Tablespoon ginger juice and mixed with a little whisk until well-combined. It looks like snot!img_1913

And then i played with it!

It is great!

i tried it first on my clit. At first, it didn’t seem like anything, but after a few seconds, the warming sensation started and began to build into a nice heat. i used my Hitachi wand on it and that was wonderful!

i put some in my pussy and used my glass dildo, which was delightful! It made my pussy hot and drippy. i put a fingerful in my ass, but i didn’t feel anything, probably because my clit and pussy were so tingly and hot.

Then i slathered a bunch on a butt plug and inserted it in my ass. It was wonderful! i think the compression of the ginger lube between the plug and my ass made all the difference. It was hot and tingly and wonderful.

Each application lasted about 20 minutes.

All in all, a great experience. i’m thinking about trying straight ginger juice next. i don’t think it’ll be much different for sensation, but i think it will be harder to apply to toys as the lube sticks to the surfaces while the juice runs off. But i’m willing to try…for science!

i’m not sure how long it will stay fresh and potent. elims suggests 4 weeks in the refrigerator. I’ll see how that goes.

Here are some more resources on figging:

Figging: The Art of Ginger Root Play

BDSM: Theory and Practice of Figging

Like Ginger? Try Figging

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The Way to My Heart is Through your Ass

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i’ve never denied Maximus anything, seriously, anything, especially sexually. Everything has been fair game, any time, any place, any way. Recently, however, i had to put a moratorium on anal sex, temporarily. i’m getting ready to do an Ironman race and i just really don’t want an added layer of anal issues during my race–112 miles on a bike with a hemorrhoid or anal fissure would more than suck! Earlier this year i had some rectal bleeding when i finished a shorter triathlon and it turned out to be from a bleeding internal hemorrhoid that i believe i got from playing with a new toy Maximus gave me a few days before that race. Thus, the moratorium.

But poor Maximus! He is completely fixated on anal sex right now! The other day He even mentioned, “I don’t know why I’ve got this raging need for anal right now, it’s all I’m fantasizing about!” And then i suggested that it might be due to the fact that it’s off-limits for Him until after my race. “Awwwww! That would explain it. You bitch!” He mocked me! It’s funny because we aren’t even together, so anal sex with me isn’t even an option, so it’s not like He’s missing out…but it’s the thought…and the few days we are together before my race.

So whenever He has a win at work or just in general, Maximus exclaims, “Oh, I’m so going to ass fuck you!”

i think it’s hilarious!

And then He noted, “you know, the way to My heart is through your ass, not My stomach!”

Maybe denial is a good thing? Lord knows Maximus has denied me orgasms, both mine and His!

i better not bend over at the finish line! Might be the first Ironman disqualification due to public ass fucking in history!

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