Date Night


i’m super excited! Going through our goals we rediscovered our commitment to weekly date nights, so tonight is date night #1 for 2017. The other thing we had forgotten about was our desire to have dancing lessons, salsa in particular. So when Maximus asked me to come up with something for our date night, i knew just what i wanted to research–dance lessons!

i’ve had salsa lessons, something i did with a swinging lifestyle girlfriend after i divorced OneGuy, and i’ve done Zumba for years, which is salsa-based, but Maximus has never had them. We love dancing together, and Maximus has some great partner-dancing moves, but we want to do more.



Recurring weeknight commitments are hard with Maximus’ erratic travel schedule, but i found a dance lesson series on Friday nights for January, starting tonight. It’s not salsa, but an introductory series on Tango, waltz, salsa, bachata, foxtrot, swing, cha cha, and rumba. What’s cool is that after each class is an hour-long open class that varies week-to-week, with nightclub two-step, Argentine tango, American waltz, and bachata, and dance parties after that every week. So we’re hopeful that we’re going to come away from this with some moves! And how better to reinforce D/s with partner dancing, with a leader and a follower?

On another note, Maximus and i went over the contract and rule changes last night. There are still a few tweaks here and there. We will be finalizing the contract Monday at my weekly training session, and then i can update the Contract and Rules page.

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